By Yehuda Ribco

When your child doesn’t heed you, why do you get angry and you shout at him/her?

Why do you sorrow that he/she is wrong? Or why do you realize you have no true authority over him/her?
If you grieve for him him/her, why do you shout at him/her, why do you get angry?
Will you get more attention this way?

Will he/she you understand crying out that you love him/her?
And if you’re upset because you have no authority, when you get angry and shouting, the only thing you show is you don’t truly love him/her and you don’t have the gift of authority.